BY GOD'S GRACE, MAY OUR FAMILY TREE BEAR GOOD FRUIT AS WE GROW TO KNOW & LOVE HIM MORE EACH DAY.

7.13.2015

MAKING SOAP

 
I'm constantly inspired by the Proverbs 31 woman. I often read through her virtues and practices and ask the Lord to help me grow to be more like her. I long to teach my daughters homemaking skills that I've learned gradually on my own through my adult years and I hope to set them up as well as possible to be keepers of their own homes one day, all the while working together here and now.
 
The roots of our endeavors are always aimed at honoring God by being good stewards of what He's given us as well as how we spend our time. Plus, we enjoy the creative process involved in many of the things we make and do (or don't do for that matter) and we're always on the lookout for new ways to glorify God in our hearts most importantly, but also in the logistics of daily life.
 
As we grow and learn new things together, the goal is to develop lifestyle choices that become natural for our children as they branch out eventually. Like so many parents throughout history, the things that we're toiling to figure out here in our generation will prayerfully be common practices for the next generation...and hopefully that will give them a head start. More than anything else, we pray our children will desire to seek the Word as the motivation for all that they do and for my girls Proverbs 31 is a platform we refer to often.

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The Woman Who Fears the Lord

10 An excellent wife who can find?
    She is far more precious than jewels.
11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
    and he will have no lack of gain.
12 She does him good, and not harm,
    all the days of her life.
13 She seeks wool and flax,
    and works with willing hands.
14 She is like the ships of the merchant;
    she brings her food from afar.
15 She rises while it is yet night
    and provides food for her household
    and portions for her maidens.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
    with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17 She dresses herself with strength
    and makes her arms strong.
18 She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
    Her lamp does not go out at night.
19 She puts her hands to the distaff,
    and her hands hold the spindle.
20 She opens her hand to the poor
    and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of snow for her household,
    for all her household are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes bed coverings for herself;
    her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates
    when he sits among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them;
    she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25 Strength and dignity are her clothing,
    and she laughs at the time to come.
26 She opens her mouth with wisdom,
    and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27 She looks well to the ways of her household
    and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children rise up and call her blessed;
    her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women have done excellently,
    but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands,
    and let her works praise her in the gates.
Proverbs 31:10-31
 
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The Proverbs 31 woman is resourceful. She works with willing hands and is industrious as she cares for her family and home. I hope to become more and more like that as I progress from habitual ways of doing things toward greater efficiency, creativity, and stewardship.

"So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
1 Corinthians 10:31

In an effort to simplify products we use at home and consumerism in general, we've been honing in on our most minimal/multi-purpose cleaning solutions as we've been making different types of soaps with common ingredients. From laundry detergent at a fraction of the cost of our previous brand to hand soap, shower soap, dish soap, spray cleaners, etc...it seems our best bet at simplicity, longevity, and affordability starts with castile soaps, both solid and liquid. For most recipes we use Dr. Bronner's Liquid Castile Soaps, but for laundry we've been using Kirk's Coco Castile Bar Soap since it's less expensive. The process is fun and easy and it chops our shopping list down which I love. (Not a big fan of errands over here)...especially right now with this gal who prefers my lap over her car seat:

(Hello online shopping!)

Also, considering we'd like to eventually live somewhere less convenient to grocery stores,
it only makes sense to be less dependent upon products and better adapted to making things at home.

Enter soap making...

This past week, Elka and I made some foaming soap dispensers to remedy and simplify a few more spots in our home.
Elka's always up for any type of crafting she can get into so she was just the girl for the job!
 
We started off with mason jars, making a round circle of nail holes in the center of our lids. Since we always have
various jars on hand (plus the ingredients used for this recipe) our cost for this project was next to nothing.
(Tip: Boiling all parts first, water included, reduces potential bacterial growth.)
 
 
Then, we carefully used needle nose pliers to cut away the excess...
 
 
...and make a hole for the foaming spout.
 
 
Next, we carefully pried the hole to just the right size, curling sharp edges in, and inserted the pumps. We both recycled what we had and bought a few inexpensive ($1.50) foaming soaps at the store and just used the foaming pumper, discarding the rest.
 
 
We filled our jars with a few tablespoons of Dr. Bronner's Baby Unscented Castile Soap (which lasts forever), filtered and boiled water, and a few drops of essential oils, Thieves for the bathrooms and Lemon for the kitchen this time. (I usually use Lavender for laundry.)


And there you have it.


Super simple foaming hand soap...
 
 
...also perfect for the bath and shower too just not in glass dispensers.

We love the yummy smells on rotation. I love the ease of having all our ingredients on hand.
And it's always a bonus to streamline another corner of our daily life by simply making soap.

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Homemade Foaming Hand Soap

2-4 Tbsp. liquid castile soap
1 1/4 c. filtered and boiled/distilled water
3-5 drops essential oil
(optional: 1/2 tsp. olive oil for moisturizing)

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"She...works with willing hands."
Proverbs 31:13


7.09.2015

THE MINISTRY IS HERE

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart
and with all your soul and with all your might."
Deuteronomy 6:5
 

For many years we discussed going into ministry, searched for opportunities, prayed for open (and closed) doors. We went on short term mission trips, sent Brodie to far off places, and sought direction from the Lord to immerse ourselves in full-time ministry vocationally.

All the while, our family grew and thus we absorbed unlimited discipleship ministry opportunities each day. Through adoption, the Lord gave us a lifelong ministry to invest in lives from countries across the globe on a small scale and individual level. Through homeschooling and parenting, He chisels our hearts and spends us on behalf of the lives in our home constantly. And ultimately it's become completely obvious, so God-ordained and we accept...the ministry we've sought is here (and has been all along). I laugh because we always had the sense that the ministry we would acquire would be "strangely familiar" and so it is.
 
The ministry is here.

It's true that the Lord used every outreach, every experience, every trip to elsewhere to align our hearts more with His. And, it's true that for years we thought we would end up living somewhere different. (Perhaps we still will eventually.) But, it's also very true that the Lord has led our hearts in unison with one another to realize that the season of now is deeply immersed in full-time ministry...right here. Our family, our adopted children, our marriage, and those we interact with IS the ministry we are called to right now and we love it.
 
The ministry is here.

Shepherding 11 little hearts and caring biblically for one another as spouses, leading our young Godward, evangelizing, training, discipling, disciplining, training, loving, and investing in these lives is our ministry right here, right now and we're in.

The ministry is here. It is.
 
And if we're to do it well we have much to consider, so we do...thoughtfully, prayerfully, daily. Ministry takes time. Ministry requires sacrifice. Ministry needs vision and follow-through from highly committed participants. Ministry demands much from it's leadership. Ministry logistics should be intentionally considered so that it is as fruitful as possible. Ministry must align with the Word of God as it's plumb line to be sure it stays the course. Most importantly, ministry should honor God and seek to glorify Him in every aspect.
 
Yes, our ministry is here.
 
Though not vocationally, it is very much here full-time, embedded in all of life for this season intensely and then beyond
as our children have children. We love this ministry opportunity we've been given! We love this ministry right here!

Lord, thank you for the ministry of parenthood and family. Thank you for confirming where you've called us. Thank you for the many souls you've entrusted to us and all the joys and challenges that come along with "us".  Please help us, lead us, guide our steps.
Please use us, spend us, create through our efforts and hold us close when we feel weak or even persecuted because of our calling.
Equip us, Lord we pray, with confidence in only YOU and what YOU can do through the meager empty vessels that we are. 
 
Lord, thank you for this ministry right here.

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children,
and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Deuteronomy 6:5-7

6.25.2015

HOW TO PRAY

At 6:02am, he came in asking for 2 milks...without saying good morning, he asked.
 
Knowing what he'd want before he made request, my mother's heart wanted to give so I began, then realized.
 
"Hey Buddy, how about saying good morning to your mama first?"
 
"Good morning, Mommy. May I have 2 milks please?"
 
And when I offered his mug I waited for the thank-you, his eyes fixed on his 2 milks instead of me.
 
"Thank you," he said, just barely looking up. And how I love this child!
 
I know he loves me too, but I still crave time with him and even thank-yous.
 
. . . . . .
 
There it was, the ton of bricks the Lord intended for me this morning...and every morning, noon, night.
 
He loves me. He offers good gifts. He knows what I need and even want before I have to ask.
 
He listens when I present my requests to Him and He is able to give more than I can imagine.
 
It's His pleasure to bless me, His child.
 
But our God is a relational God. He desires communion with us and has taught us how to pray.
 
"For your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
Pray then like this:
 
'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come,
your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread, a
nd forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.'"
Matthew 6:8-13
 
Lord, remind me continually how you would have me pray. Help me to keep my eyes on you daily, to greet you first each day with praise, to seek communion with you even before presenting requests, and to do it all with genuine thanksgiving in my heart.
 
"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you."
James 4:8
 
Lord, may we all be more focused on you than anything else, especially self or circumstances, receiving your will as perfect, wise, and good.  May we find peace and rest for our souls as we turn our gaze upon you continuously, because we trust in you. And may we be content, grateful for your patience and love and that your Word teaches everything we need to know in life...and even how to pray.
 
"You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you."
Isaiah 26:3

6.21.2015

FATHER'S DAY

 
 
His heart is turned toward home. He models the Father's love. He pours into the ministry of fatherhood.

He's a very special guy.
 
"And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers."
Malachi 4:6
 
He's pretty fun too...juggling our crew with gentleness and earnest care for each individual one.


Thank you Lord, for choosing this incredible man to father these beloved children!

"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth.
Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!"

Psalm 127:3-5

His commitment to raising our children in the discipline and
instruction of the Lord is a blessing with eternal implications.
 
"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger,
but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."
Ephesians 6:4
 
His compassion emulates the heart of Christ.
 
"As a father shows compassion to his children,
so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him."
Psalm 103:13
 
Because he fears the Lord and walks in His ways, there is fruit.
 
"Blessed is everyone who fears the LORD, who walks in his ways!
You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands;
you shall be blessed, and it shall be well with you.
Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house;
your children will be like olive shoots around your table.
Behold, thus shall the man be blessed who fears the LORD."
Psalm 128:1-4
 
Brodie, thank you for your dedication to the mission field here in our home.
Thank you for laying your life down for us all with constant willingness. You inspire us!
 
We are all SO blessed because of how you obey the Lord and how He works through you!

You are so very loved today and every day!!
 
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
 

"Praise the Lord! Blessed is the man who fears the LORD, who greatly delights in his commandments!
His offspring will be mighty in the land; the generation of the upright will be blessed."
Psalm 112:1-2

6.19.2015

INDIA IS 3!

 
India...How are you 3?! Just 4 days old you were when God led us to you.
Surely He knew the blessing you'd be. He knows all the days He's planned for you.
 
"Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them,
  the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them."
Psalm 139:16
 
 
"How beautiful upon the mountains are the feet of him who brings good news."
Isaiah 52:7
 
And it's our honor to raise you up to know Him, to teach you how He loves you!
You make us laugh. Your energy fills a room. How dull would we be without you anyway?!

 
Happy 3rd Birthday to our Indi girl!
May the Lord shine brightly through you all your days!
 
"Let your light shine."
Matthew 5:16