For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place,
when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
Psalm 139:13-16
ALL the days...means that when God breathed life into our children across the globe, He knew that He would beckon our hearts to go to them. He knew we would respond by His grace. He knows who they are, where they are, and how He will get us to them.
Exhale...
It's not up to us to "choose" the right kids. They're already chosen for us. We're following a God who can be trusted. And we do. We trust Him. We trust that His plans are far better than ours. We trust that He is good. And with childlike faith, we trust that He knows all the days.
